Sunday, November 7, 2010

5 Ways to Reconcile a Broken Relationship

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Prove You Still Love Your Partner

There are several ways to express love to your partner other than saying the words "I Love You." Let's be realistic, the passion in a relationship does die down after a while. The heart pounding feeling and excitement of being with your significant other is not felt as often, if at all.

So the question is, "How do we get back the love, passion and affectionate feeling that enveloped us at the beginning of the relationship?"

It is a known fact that actions speak louder than words so below I have listed 5 ways to help you reconcile a fractured relationship and show your partner how much you really do love them:
  • Negotiate a compromise;  If there is an unresolved conflict or one of you is holding a grudge, compromise. The focus should be on finding the middle ground where both you and your partner can agree instead of who is right.
  • Flirt with each other;  This is light-hearten seduction with the intent of conveying love! Why not send a sexy text message or email while you are at work? This reminds the other person that you are thinking about him or her. Remind them that they are a wonderful mate. This also increases the intensity of love so that you actually look forward to seeing each other when you return home from work. 
  • Be a kid again;  There is no reason why couples at any age can't get into tickling matches. Accept that it is okay to be silly from time to time. Play games with your partner whether it be board games, video games or card games. Get naked and play twister, don't forget the baby oil! Okay, maybe that's a bit extream but the point is to bring down the wall between you and your partner.
  • Take up a hobby that you both can enjoy;  This is a good way to make your relationship stronger while adding in something fun. 
  • Express your love with words;  Surprise your lover with little notes found in unexpected places using those little sticky notes. Be creative and have some fun with this.
Give these five methods above a try and show your partner how much you truly love him/her. If you think it will take more than these 5 methods to reconcile your relationship, than you should consider this self help guide... help for broken marriage.



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